But then I had a thought the other day at work. There was a name I had previously thrown out as a possibility for a girl's first name, mostly because I liked the shortened form of it. But when I tried the full name as a middle name, it worked! As an added bonus, that name includes the name of a family member whose name wouldn't work well as a middle name!
While we ate supper tonight, I suggested the new middle name to Amanda, and she liked it. We agreed that we've got an official name if Baby Fehr is a girl. But that left the boy's name. We had a few good possibilities for middle names, Amanda suggested that one would be her first choice, and we decided to go with it.
So Baby Fehr has a name, whether she turns out to be a girl, or he turns out to be a boy!
...now we just need to worry about other things like car seats, bassinettes, strollers, and other things.